Violette Thorngate Exquisite Dominance


San Francisco

La Maison de la Maitresse

Imagine a discreet, classic Victorian home that couples old-world charm with a superb array of state-of-the-art BDSM equipment. High ceilings, 19th century architecture and great attention to detail all create a precious atmosphere for our time together. Follow the clicking of my heels on the cold tile of the lush Entrance Hall, past the secure Isolation Cell and continuing through the golden doorway. Beyond it you'll find a suite of beautifully appointed rooms, a tribute to the power of traditional femininity.

The Salon is a richly comfortable space for conversation and transformation of any kind. The 1950's Kitch Kitchen is a classic venue for domestic discipline and adjoins the shower and Powder Room, well-appointed for your comfort or discomfort, depending upon the occasion. Mother's Room is the centerpiece of this wonderland, ideal for classic domestic scenes or nursery time.

The wickedness one expects in a modern dungeon fills the double parlor; two large, luxurious rooms designed for pain, predicament and restraint. Here I have everything available to me for your torment and punishment on any level. Well-crafted bondage furniture and cages are joined by a impressive collection of restraints, ropes and more precise devices of control. Every cane, paddle, whip and strap is perfectly arranged and prepared for duty. Afterward you might curl up by the fireside or in front of the throne, at my feet.

La Maison is centrally located five minutes from downtown San Francisco and close to many wonderful restaurants and upscale bars. The space is ideal for encounters of any length, including overnight retreats.

Other Dedicated Kink Spaces

Do we need an inescapable authentic jail cell or a large open floorspace for pony training? I have access to a few other staggeringly well-equipped private locations in the Bay Area for our adventuring. In the event that La Maison is not available or that another setting more closely meets our needs, I will arrange for us to spend time at one of these beauties.

Home Away From Home

I lust for boutique and luxury hotels, and I'm happy to recommend favourites for your visit and to meet you there with the appropriate accoutrements. I have a discreet but well-curated travel kit for our out-of-dungeon forays.


I'm available to fly to you upon request as well join you for domestic or international travel. For information on how to make this happen, see the Encounters page. I also regularly visit major North American cities such as Seattle, Los Angeles, Toronto, Cancun, Mexico City, and New York. A few times a year I visit Europe and tend to base mysef in London or Paris while there. To be notified of my travel to your region, join My Mailing List or keep an eye on my site.

Upcoming Trips

I keep the introductory page of my site updated with my travel information.

Past Trips

Caribbean // Portland // Los Angeles // London // Napa // Seattle // Mexico // Cotswolds, UK // Washington D.C. // Paris // Marseille // Arles // Aix // Barcelona // Girona // La Ciotat // NYC // Toronto // Atlanta // Bretagne // Hawaii // Berlin // Amsterdam // Baja // Playa del Carmen // Houston // Detroit // Oxford // Maui // San Diego //