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Jan 9 2015 Casting Off My Stockings For The New YearCategory: Announcements     07:41PM   0

Do you have a New Year ritual? Champagne and a kiss when the clock strikes? Do you make resolutions for the coming year or reminisces of the year past? A plunge into icy water or a superstitious phrase? A song to start things off on the right foot? (I sing this one quite a bit around this time, and twenty years ago I couldn't start the year without this one.)

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Jan 21 2014 Surveillance Technologies for Erotic ControlCategory: General     01:20PM   0

He is looking at a naughty website, and I am watching. More specifically, I am watching the naughty website, as if over his shoulder, but I am also watching him. I can see which images have the most impact and I can see whether or not he’s touching himself and how. I am watching him struggle to write out the assignment, delete part of it, try again. I am watching him brush his teeth, check his phone one last time, climb into bed. I am even watching him sleep. At any moment I could call

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Dec 25 2013 Winter NewsCategory: Announcements     02:25PM   0

 

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Sep 30 2013 The Thrill of Being WatchedCategory: General     12:26PM   0

Surveillance Camera To Control Your Life!

 

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Jun 21 2013 Pleasure and DistractionCategory: General     02:12PM   0

“Hutchison's Law: Any occurrence requiring undivided attention will be accompanied by a compelling distraction.” - Robert Bloch

Our inventions are wont to be pretty toys, which distract our attention from serious things.” - Henry David Thoreau

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Aug 28 2012 On Thresholds and Topping From The BottomCategory: General     03:26PM   1

My most sexually innocent friend, who we’ll call Mona, struggles to grasp This Thing We Do.

To begin with, Mona is almost always shocked when I describe a fantasy someone might have. Even activities that are fairly commonplace for kinky people scandalize her. She just can’t comprehend how these things could be exciting, erotic, or in any way desirable!

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Aug 8 2012 Two New AccomplicesCategory: General     06:33PM   1

The first time I met Ms. Eliza, we were hurrying into a theatre in Lyon to watch a piece written by a friend of hers. I can hardly remember the performance, dazzled as I was by Eliza’s conspicuous beauty: her efficient high heels, her proud cheekbones, her bubbly audacity and frightening brilliance. Over the weeks that followed we shared thoughts on politics and travel, stockings and beauty treatments. Over Moroccan mint tea we analyzed

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Aug 2 2012 Porcelain and PaperbacksCategory: General     09:19AM   0

To see you twice, and with only a month’s break in between for contemplation, was really a treat. When we are kept apart too long, I lose the momentum of our connection. Over time a certain evolution wants to happen- an evolution of shared fantasy and of comfort, an evolution of limits and how to push them.  We had a chance to move forward instead of just playing catch up. It feels as if we have rekindled something treasured once again and I am very, very pleased to think back o

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Jul 25 2012 The Sweetness of HomeCategory: Travel     01:24PM   0

After a month and a half in France, I am home again in San Francisco- in my own bed, my own boudoir. My favourite ferns, pinguiculas, and violets have exploded in my absence. Three new books have been added to the “to read” pile which grows beside the ferns. I’m happy to have come back early enough to benefit from the Bay Area summer in the form of outdoor dining, the San Francisco Symphony playing in the park, and sandal weather. I can’t say I missed the nightly blanket of fog that t

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May 23 2012 London AwaitsCategory: Travel     01:11PM   0

France is usually my homebase while in Europe, but this summer I’ll be making my first visit to London, among other places. Paris and Southern France are certain, but Berlin, Barcelona, and Portugal are question marks that will merit some consideration in the coming weeks.

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May 7 2012 My Two-Week Long Scene / Vacation, Part ICategory: General     01:17PM   0

I took a bit of time away to spend a whole two weeks in "Mommy" role with a wonderful "boy," and I never wanted it to end! Imagine all of the tenderness and power that a Mommy can claim, the excitement of playing out in the world, where no one knows what you are to one another, and the pleasure of intimate rituals shared between Mommy and boy!

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May 7 2012 I Know, I Know...Category: General     12:30PM   0

This month has been rain, rain, rain around here, but I've kept myself warm in a number of ways. New colleagues, a heavy pull on my supply of french tea*, and a wonderful day spent at the XXXXXXXX Hotel organized with Ms. Tara Sterling and a number of other Dommes. We all converged in the lovely tower suite (with it's view of both bridges) for hours of torture, snacks, electro-training, telescopes, toilet training, humiliation, and our genera

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May 7 2012 Still One of My Favourite ThingsCategory: General     12:14PM   0


May 7 2012 An Afternoon DowntownCategory: General     11:22AM   0

 

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Feb 19 2012 New York CityCategory: Travel     11:09AM   0

February 22nd to 26th I'll be accepting guests in New York City, a place I have not yet managed to love. My memories are mostly from a trip I took many years ago with a group of other Professional Mean Ladies. A lot of wild moments were created for ourselves and the poor men of New York, but I didn't have anything near a great time. I was quite affected by the concrete all around, the lack of eye contact, and the disconnected urban world. I was used to San Francisco and Los Angeles, tw

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